Over the past few months I have been talking with many members of
Men’s Sheds throughout the North Island of New Zealand, as well as
reading extensively on issues relating to retirement.
The key
themes apparent in my study of retirement issues are that a loss of
purpose upon retirement after decades of responding to the manifold
demands of work and family can make life appear to be meaningless. Faced
with a loss of purpose and a lack of meaning can lead people to give up
hope.
A sense of hopelessness is often what precipitates a rapid
decline in physical and mental health in retired people, and it may be
noted that the loss of hope can be the final straw which drives people
to commit suicide.
In discussions at the Shed about retirement,
Shed members often refer to the fact that their fathers and other older
male relatives were often dead within eighteen month of retirement.
Studies have shown that eighteen months of feeling “blue” (not even
mildly depressed) can have a severely negative effect upon the body’s
immune system and general functioning to the point where severe illness
sets in, leading to a rapid decline and death.
This is the first
in a series of notes (which I intend to turn into articles for
publications) in which I will explore the issues men face upon
retirement - issues they are ill-prepared to face, and which comprise
the most difficult problems many of us have ever encountered.
My
main themes will be addressing loss of purpose, meaning and hope as
discussed above, how planning and adapting to changing circumstances can
help overcome these problems; and, of course, the invaluable role Men’s
Sheds can play in developing strategies and providing opportunities to
help us successfully cope with these and other complex retirement
issues.
See: my Shed blog www.shedyarns.blogspot.co.nz
NZ Sheds: www.menzshed.org.nz/
Men's Shed North Shore (Auckland): www.mensshednorthshore.org.nz
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